It is important to acknowledge that there is still progress to be made when it comes to domestic violence. While there were fewer arrests and prisoners were released during the pandemic, along with jury trials being temporarily suspended, we know that there was an increase in cases of domestic violence. Victims were stuck at home with their abusers and there were increased stressors involved due to the loss of jobs, illness and grief.

The pandemic also complicated the ways that we usually respond to victims of violence. With school taking place remotely there was no one around to notice the warning signs. Some victims were unable to reach out to support with less private time.  Others were less likely to have the means to leave if their work was put on hold or they were let go.

Just as the pandemic has disproportionately effected the poor and people of color, these populations are also more likely to be victims of sexual and domestic violence.

Unfortunately, the longer someone is in a situation like that the harder it can be to get out. It’s heart breaking to think of the survivors of violence that have gotten used to thinking that they don’t deserve any better.

Change is something that we need to accomplish as a community. It starts with awareness of the issue. We also need to educate the public about warning signs and about the options that victims have to get help.

Also, don’t underestimate the shame, stigma and the victim-blaming that come with being a survivor of abuse. To keep that in mind will go a long way in helping you to provide support to friends or loved ones who are victims of abuse.

If you or someone that you know is a victim of violence please contact any of the following organizations. In an emergency situation call 911.

In Idaho call 211 for information on programs and services in your area. You can also contact the Idaho Council on Domestic Violence and Victim Assistance at (208)332-1540 or info@icdv.idaho.gov.

Nationally you can contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline for anonymous, confidential help, 24/7 at 1(800)799-7233 (SAFE). Or text “START” to 88788.